Abb Fab: The Women of Abbotsford - Anne Scott

This month, Abb Fab focuses on ‘the second sister’, Anne Scott. At the heart of this monthly project, we turn our attention to those who history has forgotten. As we attempt to right these wrongs, we encounter barriers. Like many women of her time, she did not marry, and in doing so, slipped beyond the structures through which history chose to record female lives.

This is precisely why Anne Scott’s story matters, and we will continue to uncover as much as we can to tell the stories of these remarkable women.

Read on for a beautiful exploration of the life of Anne Scott by Claire-Lilith Suscens.

Anne Scott

4 metres in the air, I encounter Anne Scott.  The black veil of her much-prized "Spanish dress" frames blushing cheeks, a gaze of inward reflection held in dark, soulful eyes.  A demure, romantic portrait...

Then, in her letters to her old governess, Miss Millar, I meet another Anne Scott.

Described as 'lively', 'gleeful, and' humorous', with 'reckless audacity' as a child, she made Scott 'frown, then laugh'.

This 'audacity' shows in an intense, spirited young woman of lively humour, certainly sharp and dry, naming the foibles and pretensions of those in her social circle; sometimes acerbic, yet also pointing to strengths of character, beauty, and unaffectedness. 

Unafraid to express her likes and dislikes frankly, she speaks the truth as she sees it. 

Not suiting antique ideas of femininity, this has been interpreted later as 'cynicism,' 'gibing' and even 'malice'.  Our culture has always censured women who speak their minds.

A principle in Scott's parenting was engendering 'courage' - "Without courage", he said, "there cannot be truth, and without truth there can be no other virtue".  And Scott praised Anne as 'an honest downright good Scottish lass, wishing only to 'correct a spirit of satire'!

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The third of four children, and Sophia being Scott’s favourite, Anne may have lived her early life in her sister's shadow.  Perhaps becoming 'outspoken' to earn attention?

Anne's contribution to 'the family business' was large. Entertaining on the harp, the near constant stream of visitors, taking over this role entirely after Sophia's marriage and putting aside her own interests in 'foreign music' to learn and perform the Scottish airs favoured by her father.

Though "much admired", enjoying the "gay" social life in Edinburgh and Abbotsford, Anne was most delighted with the trip to Ireland, Wales and Lakes with her father in 1825, describing it as "the happiest time I ever spent".  

The same year, at 22, she is scathing of being 'married-off' by neighbours' insistent (and incorrect) gossip!  And in 1831, confides in that "..after mature deliberation.."  she rejected a proposal of marriage.  She has not mentioned it to her family and asks for complete confidentiality.  Probably, again, prioritising her father's needs.

Anne is one of many unsung women who, either by choice or compulsion, give their lives to serving and enabling others. 

Her own health was not strong since aged 21, and supporting her parents through illness, decline, and witnessing their deaths, took a profound toll.

After her mother, it was Anne who was housekeeper, hostess, entertainer, travel companion, nurse, and secretary to her father's work.

With "resolute endurance ", Anne cared for his needs, her loving support helping Scott to pursue his honourable intention of meeting his debts; and finally, she was Scott’s principal, 24hr carer and nurse.  The physical and emotional work of those two roles is never fully appreciated. 

She experienced "so many strange and awful scenes" in Scott’s last year, and never fully recovered. 

Anne died aged 30, one year after Scott.    

It seems the devotion of that enduring, loving heart, finally, broke it.  

Want to learn more about Anne? Read Anne Scott - A Life in Paintings.

Next month, we will look at Lady Jane Scott (formerly Jane Jobson), the wife of Scott's eldest son.

Click here to read last month's Abb Fab post, where we learn about Anne and her sister, Sophia